It is said that as many as 80% of all marriages could be classified as “sεxless”. Sεxless – most typically defined as having sεx less than 10 times a year. Let that soak in for a second…
This is a conversation I have had with so many friends and couples and usually the focus is on, “Why we are not having s*x – enough”. But the truth is, why isn’t as important as how to deal with it. The “why’s” can range from tension in the marriage, stress on the job, hormones, physical distance, conflicting work schedules or long term illness, and at the end of the day a spouse that is lonely because their spouse is physically unable to have s*x fights the same fight as the person that’s spouse just isn’t in the mood.
So the focus is on how to thrive and stay faithful to your God, spouse and vows in a sexless marriage.
#1. Vent. Holding it in, and/or, not talking about it, doesn’t make the fight easier. If anything, it makes it worse. Your feelings are legitimate and there is a legitimate way to express your feelings and get them out. Tell your spouse how you really feel – really. The problem is not all the ownership of one person or the other, nor does it get solved by one person, alone. Instead, it is a mutual problem and concern of both a husband and a wife, and that might be the best way to approach it. So vent to each other and get to the real deal of your feelings about not having s*x enough.
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