When you finally agree to hear “their side” of the story, you receive endless apologies and tears, begging you for your forgiveness. Your anger is enigmatic and your sorrow is overwhelming.
Yet, somehow you begin to think this is your fault. Somehow you could’ve been better, done better, done more. This is the first of many mistakes, and believe me, my friend, there are many lessons to be learned.
#1. It Has Nothing To Do With You. The decision to cheat is entirely unilateral. One person makes that decision, not two. We tend to forget that. Infidelity has nothing to do with your appearance, wealth, education, or who you are as a person.
After I was cheated on, I couldn’t look at myself the same way. All I could think was, “Well, what did she look like?” “What could I have done better?” “What did I do wrong?”. This was my first, and by far my biggest, mistake.
No matter who you are or what you do, a person will cheat on you regardless, because of their own insecurities. Quite honestly, that’s their problem, not yours, so stop blaming yourself.
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