Just say no.“Does he have a legitimate excuse for waiting to marry me or is he just stalling?”
This is the question women ask most often whose “marriage talks” with their boyfriends aren’t resulting in a proposal. Of course, there are times when these long-term boyfriends do raise a valid concern or two that needs to be addressed before you can seriously consider spending a lifetime together. The challenge is to identify when an excuse or two has turned into serial stalling.
Once you reach the point where every mention of marriage is met with a constant stream of excuses, you’re likely to find that rather getting tired of delaying marriage, he seems to become more and more proficient at stalling. Although the number of excuses these men use seem limitless, there are several categories that are old time favorites and crop up over and over again.
See if you recognize your man’s behavior in any of these common “serial staller personalities.”
1. The man who needs everything to be perfect
He may say that you need to wait for the perfect time, have the perfect amount of money saved, or be at the perfect stage in your careers before the two of you can take your relationship to the next level. This “perfect” excuse is very convenient, because there’s no such thing as perfection in life.
The excuse can continue indefinitely no matter how life changes. Even if you’ve saved a chunk of money or have reached a milestone at work, the excuse can always be made that these are merely steps along the path to reaching that “perfect time” for marriage. One side note about the perfectionist is that he isn’t usually a perfectionist when it comes to other things in life, just when it comes to marriage.
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