Don’t say “I do” until he proves he’s ready.
Many women come to my couples counseling practice asking for advice about their relationships, including questions about whether their partner has the qualities and characteristics needed to become a “successful husband.”
This is clearly not a scientific question, as each individual has different taste, values, priorities and preferences. However, there are general qualities that make a man more appealing and desirable as a husband and more successful as a life partner. Here are seven qualities you should look for in a man before ever deciding to marry him.
#1. He shares important core values with you
Values are those ‘rules of life’ that inherently guide the way you live your life. They’re deeply rooted in personal beliefs that are fundamental to who you are. They’re also very difficult to change.
Connecting on a spiritual, emotional and value level with a man you wish to marry is a key indicator for long-term marital success. When you and your partner know that you are on the “same page,” you’ll feel more confident that he’s truly the man you want to marry.
When you both think ahead into the marriage and know you can respect each other’s perspective on important marital issues (such as family dynamics, child rearing, finance, in-laws, roles and responsibilities), you know you’re making the right choice.
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