Once you think you’ve found “the one,” you feel like you are on cloud nine. Knowing that you’ve met the person you want to spend the rest of your life with is amazing!
You know how people always say, “I just knew,” when it comes to figuring out if someone is “the one.” Well I think there is some truth to that, but it’s actually a little more involved. I think the man you’re with exhibits a number of qualities that allows you to see a future with him. Seeing those qualities in action time and time again is really how you know.
I didn’t wake up one day to a random gut feeling that told me to marry my husband. I decided to marry him because he showed me who he was through his actions, and I realized that he’s the man I would love to build my life with. Of course, there were butterflies, and, of course, I listened to my gut. But the final decision about him being “the one” was deeper than just those two things.
Determining whether or not you should spend the rest of your life with someone isn’t easy. And unfortunately, love tends to get in the way when it’s time to make that decision. Love is, of course, a major factor we all need to consider, but love isn’t enough.
You can love someone who isn’t good for you. You can love someone who doesn’t treat you well. You can love someone that won’t make you happy years from now. Love feels good, and it matters so much, but love alone doesn’t mean you’ve found “the one.”
So before you go claiming that the man in your life is “the one,” consider these nine questions.
#1. Is he possessive? Possessiveness is not a sign of love and concern; it’s a sign of control. A possessive man may soon exhibit other behaviors that you don’t want to see from the man you choose to spend the rest of your life with.
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