Watch Out For These Before You Get Too Invested. From the first time that a girl truly caught your eye, you know what it’s like when you’re really digging someone. Blame it on the first girlfriend who broke your heart or that one that was always too elusive to be caught, but in every relationship, there’s never a fully equal division of love. As matchmaker and dating expert Sarah Patt explains: whoever loves the other more isn’t a competition. Instead, it’s an ebb-and-flow over many months (and years) where your love for one another changes, just like your life, career and beliefs do. You can’t stand stagnant in anything, or well, you’ll get bored.
While it’s normal for your girl to be more into you than you are into her and vice versa, depending on the month or the time, relationship coach and therapist Kristy De Leon says it’s important to notice just how extreme the balancing act is. “Depending on what is going on in the relationship, one person will typically feel like they are giving more love than the other person,” she says. “But it is crucial to realize that these are ‘moments,’ unless of course the partner has become physically or mentally ill. Then the person must decide if they want to be in this kind of relationship and can accept the new limitations on their partner’s affection. Or, if the person feels like it has been months now that they are putting in the majority of the love and effort, then it is time to talk. It is not healthy for the person or the relationship to be one-sided — then it is not a healthy relationship; it’s an arrangement out of convenience.”
So what are some indications that it’s not just a phase where you’re doting on her more? Here, dating and love experts explain the signs that she loves you more – and if you should hit the road or not:
#1. You Do Whatever She Says
So your buddies planned a big trip together but she wants to go on a romantic weekend together upstate on the spur of the moment. When you attempt to bargain for another weekend, she shuts down. Because you don’t want to lose your babe, you give in — even though she didn’t compromise at all. “Whether she asks for a favor or wants to go to a particular restaurant, she runs the show,” Patt explains. “This might be because you aren’t used to being with a woman who knows what she wants and you’ve fallen for her completely.” Not only are you, well, whipped — but you might be putting in way more into the relationship than she is. If you aren’t getting anything out of the relationship that fits your needs, then you need to reevaluate why you’re with her.
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