Author: Danielle Ella

Check if your date has any allergies or culinary dislikes before you finally decide on your chosen menu. If they have an aversion to seafood or a nut allergy for example, it may mean that you need to change your proposed menu to accommodate this.

If you find out once you’ve made the meal it could spoil an otherwise romantic evening. So make sure you do your homework and serve food that you know will be appreciated.

Remember that this is first and foremost a date. It’s not a job interview to be a member of the catering staff at a fancy restaurant! Unless you’re very comfortable in the kitchen, keep your menu choice simple. Avoid anything that’s going to be sensitive on cooking time as your date shouldn’t be kept to military precision timing!

One of the most intimate things you can do with your date (without the removal of clothes that is) is to cook dinner for them. You don’t have to be a professional cook or chef to pull this off either, just follow the tips and advice below and you’ll be amazed at how simple it is to show your partner how much you care about them by creating a romantic dinner for two in your own home.

If you’re unsure whether to do a 3-course meal or a 2-course meal, make it a 2-course meal but have a tray of cheese and crackers with some sliced fresh fruit ready to serve with the coffee after the meal.

Write down everything you need to do with the meal – from a list of ingredients and kitchen equipment to the steps you’ll take when preparing the meal.

You should also consider where you and your date will eat, and add anything you will require (such as a centerpiece), and things you need to do associated with serving the meal (polishing glassware for example) to your preparation list.

Calculate how long each step on your list will take you to complete – overestimate if you’re not sure!

Buy as much of the things you need the day before your date, leaving only any products that must be bought fresh on the day – but make sure that you remember to leave a note to yourself somewhere prominent highlighting any items you still need to get.

You should also prepare as much of the food in advance as you can. Many dishes can be half-prepared if not entirely prepared ready for cooking the night before and then stored in the refrigerator overnight.

Make sure that your clothes for the date are ready the night before, and that you know how you will wear your hair. Once you start cooking on the evening of your date, you’ll be less stressed if you know you just need a few moments to jump into your date clothes before your date arrives.

If you’re running behind schedule, find something for your date to do to help with the meal when they arrive, this could be something as simple as setting the tableware on the table, or more intimate such as asking them to help you with the food preparation. Most people in this situation will enjoy the experience.

Relax! If you’ve organized and prepared everything right, then trust your ability in the kitchen to carry off the meal you’ve planned. And if it doesn’t turn out exactly right, so what! You’ll at least have shown your date that you care enough about them to at least try and make the date something a little more special!

Attracting Women seems to be harder each passing day since it seems like the women are ONLY interested in something they can get. But we should get that mentality off our head, there are several ways in which men can legally attract women, and not through money.

There are several reasons why Women are attracted to men. Although it’s certain and studies have shown, that tastes vary on an individual-by-individual basis.

But according to recent research, which shows that women in general, tend to prefer some traits in men. And the good news? Some of these traits which women find attractive in Men are within your control.

But the bad news? Some of them are not. This is why there’s whiskey.

9 Powerful Traits Women Find Attractive in Men

1. Money, Money and Money:

According to a recent study which was conducted by an evolutionary psychologist, David Buss, who discovered that women from 37 cultures around the world value high earning potential and good financial prospects in a partner than others.

Studies have shown that Zambia ladies love a sugar daddy to a poor young handsome guy.

2. Confidence

3. Personality

4. Sense of humor and Adventurous.

5. Loyalty and devotion

6. Integrity and Challenging attitude.

7. Strength

8. Trust and Good communicator.

9. A loving partner with Ambition.

Bonus

Respect her parents and friends too

Always Encourage her and Give her space.

Being Chivalric and Always Being There for Her When you’re Needed.

Pampering

For most guys, College is a rite of passage when it comes to women. Most late bloomers, such as myself, get girlfriends in this period of time and if you’re a student you should definitely get a girlfriend in College. One of the big mailbag questions I get is how to get a girlfriend in College. On this article, I’ll show you how you can get a girlfriend on campus in a semester or less.

I can’t stress enough that its when you’ve got a girlfriend that you learn the most about women. You’ll learn their psychology, their wants, and needs, how they are in relationships, and what they really want in men. That is I’ll choose to be with a girlfriend over being a college pick up artist any day because all those guys stress about is approaching girls.

What these College PUA’s don’t realize is that approaching is one thing, but the real meat and potatoes are building a relationship with women in College over time and turning that into a relationship. So don’t wait till the day your 4 years are up to realize this.

Now, the simple, most basic concept on how to get a girlfriend in College is the gradual increase in the quality of the relationship over time.

You’ve got a semester – a few months to actually do this. I guarantee that you can get a girlfriend if you follow this methodology. I’ll be direct and just give away how to do it:

The main tactic is to:

1: Increase Her Time Commitments With You

2: Keep changing the experiences and dynamics whenever you see each other.

While it is a fact that women (just like men) have many options in College, it’s really the quality of the relationship versus quantity that prevails. She can have many guy friends, acquaintances, suitors, and what not, but its the guy SHE becomes emotionally invested to, that wins the race.

One day, take her out to lunch (scratch the surface…)

Next day, show her this cool new musical piece you created (showing her your dimensions…)

Next, meet her friends and flirt with her in front of them (changing the dynamic, making it flirty and showing interest)

Next, help promote and watch her Art Exhibit (Shows you care and will put extra time towards her)

Next, have a great one on one conversation with her about your plans after College (increases closeness and affirming the dynamic)

Next, go bring her to meet your friends, and flirt with her in front of them (affirming the dynamic)

Next, ask her a favor if she can help you with a project you’re having a tough time with (she invests more time in you…)

….and so on…

Now once you establish the foundations, all that remains is to create an atmosphere of intimacy, and from there you can get your first kiss. Here are a few examples of how you can do that:

– Walk her home from a party

–  Have a chat at the park, patio, or balcony, or

–  Prepare dinner for her at your dorm room.

If you’ve built everything up to this point, then the kiss should come naturally. Look, College women don’t have a ton of dating experiences, so when you pull off something that creates the mood like this, AND you’ve set everything up through the increasing time commitments and changing dynamics… it’s game over.

During my 4 years in College, this was how I (and man, many, many others) got a girlfriend.

Now if you’ve got 99 problems that need to get fixed, such as

1. Finding your Own Innate Attractiveness,

2. Being “The Man” on Campus, OR

3. Getting Better at Socializing,

Then you might want to purchase my College Invasion 5-Module Program. I’ve got 5 CD’s that I guarantee will make you an all-around cooler guy in college, equip you with top-level socializing and social circle building skills, and give you a complete game plan to take women home and get a girlfriend.